I heard someone today say that it was going through the trials of an unsupportive family that enabled them to have the strength and skills to be successful and happy today in life, health and money. It prompted the thought that misery and mastery are two sides of the same environment.
Every condition is life is an opportunity for us to respond in misery or respond as a master. The miserable see conditions they don’t like (unsupportive relatives and spouses, lack up money and time, health conditions, etc ) and they resist reality as it is right now and they become miserable. The condition doesn’t make them miserable, their relation to the condition makes them miserable.
Masters do it just a bit differently. Same condition, but the shift is about a 1° shift, but it changes a whole life. The master sees the condition they don’t like and immediately becomes more clear about the condition they do like. “I hate this small closet I have. Now I know having a big closet is important to me.” Or, “I have no omone
be happy on the condition misery and mastering come from the same thing. There’s we can make which each miserable thing that happens to us that leads one step closer to a perfect wonderful happy abundant life and everything that she wants. Or toward a miserable victim belief life, that comes from being dependent on conditions.