The most costly conversation is the one that is left unsaid.
So how do you remedy those costly conversations that you are so fearful of going bad? The best remedy is to just say it. And be aware, how you say…
Building or crushing the life of your dreams, a few words at a time.
It has been said that words are but 7% of communication. This may be true, but not all the time. Imagine getting a card from someone you care about in…
Motivation to inspiration by getting beat by a girl
Motivation. It is a curious phenomenon when something outside of you provokes a new way of engaging in your world. The real power of when motivation turns into inspiration, which…
Give advice without offense: Double Permission Approach
Have you ever been the situation where you want to help someone solve a problem or challenge that they are going through, but after attempting been harshly rejected? “Mind your…
QUESTIONS OVER ADVICE: DEVELOPING THE LEADER
Advice doesn't work as well Advice giving doesn’t work as well as a question led process. At first it would seem the best way to get someone up to speed.…
Fierce Conversations Interview
I was interviewed by David Trotter for his Launch 52 TV site. The full video is below or check it out at Launch 52 site! LAUNCH52tv #9 - Jevon Perra…
Getting past “what isn’t supposed to be” [part 2]
My last blog was ‘My thoughts on what is not supposed to be.” I related my embarrassing tale of my unsuccessful attempt to get back my ex-girlfriend and my interaction…
What really isn’t “supposed to be”.
“Bless those who persecute you; bless and do not curse... Therefore, “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink... Do not be overcome…
New story = New life
Consider this tricky little story. A man is driving his son to school. They get into an accident and the man dies. The son is rushed to the hospital. When…
Challenge Reality
Challenge Reality "Reality is merely an illusion, albeit a very persistent one." – Albert Einstein. “I have come so that you can have real and eternal life, more and better…