My sister sent this story to me. Thanks sis!
When things in your life seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours
in a day are not enough, remember the Mayonnaise Jar and the 2 Beers.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front
of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and
empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then
asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was. The
professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar
He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas
between the golf balls. He then asked the students again if the jar was
They agreed that it was. The professor next picked up a box of sand and
poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else.
He asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a
unanimous, “Yes!” The professor then produced two Beers from under the
table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling
the empty space between the sand. The students laughed.
“Now,” said the professor as the laughter subsided, “I want you to
recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are the
important things – your family, your children, your health, your
friends and your favorite passions – and if everything else was lost
and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are
the other things that matter, like your job, your house and your car.
The sand is everything else – the small stuff.”
“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no
room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If you
spend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have
room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the
things that are critical to your happiness. Spend time with your
children. Spend time with your parents.”
“Visit with grandparents. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your
spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always be time to
clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first
– the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the Beer
represented. The professor smiled and said, “I’m glad you asked. The
Beer just shows you that no matter how full your life may seem, there’s
always room for a couple of Beers with a friend.”